看到这么娇情的书名从没想要去翻,直到前天,我想找本薄点的翻翻吧,而这本便是手上页数最少的了,直到看到书中引用 Donald W.Winnicott 的:Dare to be lonely in someone else’s arm . 我才明白这书名的涵义,或许娱乐圈的你你我我不甚了解,但这句话我记在了心里。
这一年我还写过这样的日记:
I felt directionless and lonesome .I knew we should have serenity to accept what we can not change .Yet though such things are easy to talk about .To carry them out is no easy matter.
We have to say I am sorry I am not stupid enough to accept a such a narration and then in my book actually I give you all the tools to be convinced that the official narrative is not credible and then if there is enough opinion to say that we do not believe this bullshit we need the real story.